Being that they are indeed URNS, it is hard to say I love them, but I do love the quality. These are very nice urns and would go nicely for any gender. They are of a neutral tone, so will look nice in any home, office, etc. I was impressed, they are not cheap looking at all and seem to seal nicely. I purchased 12 total, we have not put them to use yet, but do not forsee any issues. I paid extra for faster shipping, but did not receive them as fast as I thought I would. Sooo...if you do regular shipping, it might take awhile...dunno.